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Top Tinder tips to get matches

If you want to get some hot matches from Tinder, then you’ve got to know how to make that spark happen. So, here are some hot tips to make your inbox 🔥🔥🔥🔥

Here’s how to message on Tinder and the best Tinder talking tips. 

Tinder tips 101

Alright, before we tell you what to say on Tinder (ok, we won’t tell you exactly what to say because otherwise there’d be thousands of clones on Tinder using the same line, but you know what we mean) you’ve got to get your profile right. Check out these Tinder tips for profiles.

They probably aren’t stuck down a well or avenging the honour of their family. Probably.

They probably aren’t stuck down a well or avenging the honour of their family. Probably.

How to message on Tinder

Now we’ll assume you know 1. What the internet is 2. What a phone is, and 3. How to use an app store so we won’t explain that bit.  

Here’s how to message on Tinder with our Tinder conversation tips.

  1. Send the first message. Sending the first message shows you’re confident and will convince whoever you’ve matched with that they’re worth your time. You don’t have to send it a nanosecond after you match – but maybe waiting six months is playing so ‘hard to get’ that you won’t get anywhere.
  2. Keep it chill. Another Tinder talking tip: They might be your type and tick all your boxes (Alive? Check. Human? Check.) but if you do something mad then you might not get a reply. 
  3. Be lowkey. Big Tinder conversation tip: If they don’t reply after a while, then it’s just not the right match. They probably aren’t stuck down a well or avenging the honour of their family. Probably.
  4. Try to move it on. This is a hot take when it comes to Tinder messaging tips. Some people use Tinder just to meet people and know that eventually, it’s about exchanging numbers to make things a bit more serious. Other people see Tinder as a way to meet and message people without giving their number out. Try to judge it but if you can’t just ask in a friendly way. Nothing lost, nothing gained.

Tinder texting tips: Next step

You’ve been using our Tinder chat tips – nice one. Now it’s time to take it to the next level. Try to line up a first date to see it’s love at first swipe. Most important thing is to have fun and get creative with the messages you’re sending. When you’re having fun – chances are there are too!