The Best Questions To Ask On an Online Date

QUESTIONS TO ASK HIM/HER/THEM TO SEE IF THEY'RE SERIOUS

If you’re feeling a little spooked, like you’re already talking to a ghost, put the feelers out as to how serious they are with these questions:

• ‘Have you been in a relationship before?’
  Are they comfortable with the idea of commitment? Nudge things a little further by asking them how long ago it was to suss whether they’ll be over the break-up. 
• ‘Have you been on any dates from this app?’
  A classic when it comes to figuring out whether they’ll actually go on one with you. If they’ve been on the app for ages but they’ve never been on a date, they’re probably just here to… chat?
• ‘Would you say you’re a romantic?’
  If they are, chances are they’re on the lookout for the real deal. Don’t be too put off if they’re not – think onion, with lots of layers (as long as they don’t make you cry).
• ‘What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done?’
  Good for getting an idea about how far along the emotional maturity scale they are. If they’re stumped, they’re probably not too serious. If they’ve previously gone all out and cooked a three-course, candle-lit meal, they’ve got some serious potential.

Once the chat’s flowing and things seem to be going smoother than Ginuwine, it’s time to figure out your plan of action. 

 

ONLINE DATING QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE MEETING

If the DMs are heading in the right direction, check out these online dating questions to ask her/him/them along with some signals which might mean they’re into it:

• ‘What are you up to this weekend?’
  This leaves the net wide open. Don’t be too gutted if they have plans – they might actually be busy. It happens.
• They message you first
  If they’re starting the chat and it’s not always you, chances are they’re interested and could be ready to meet. Carpe diem, my friend – send that invite.
• ‘I’d love to try (insert something here) with you sometime’
  If they’re vague in their reply, they might be putting on the brakes, but if they’re low-key buzzing, you know what to do.
• They’ve asked you these questions
  Takes one to know one. They’re probably putting out the feelers like your good self. Take the plunge. 

Good questions to ask on online dating apps don’t have to be cringe – keep it real. We’ve all been rejected at one time or other. Keep swiping on the people you like – the matches will happen. Trust.